Engagement Day: The Story Behind...Part 1

Sebenarnye, both of us x mau tunang....dah kitorg diskas mende ni since two years back lagi...tetibe...bile term risik n meminang tu menjadi persoalan....org2 tue pon dah masuk campur..... *sigh*

Al kisah nye bermule lebey kurang sebulan before hari tunang....I bertandang ke rumah FMIL...sbb FMIL kate ade something nk diskas ngn I. Then..when I got there..she told me n mr-dat-tym-my-bf, yang die malas nak pk term2 tu...n die nk anta rombongan meminang..sekali gus kitorg kne bertunang. aiyaaakkk!

Term tunang tu sendiri sangat menggerunkan. I slalu dgr my frens n cousins cerite pasal diorg nye dugaan semase bertunang. Sbb tu dulu2 lagi I dah goda pujuk my-bf untuk skip tunang. heee...sume nye berjalan lancar mcm yg kitorang plan sampai la tym jumpe FMIL tu. huhu.

Yang kitorg ni pon...bile dah dpt tau FMIL nak soh brtunang jugak....gigit jari la. Sbb sume budget kitorg dah fokus kat nikah n kahwin. Tup2 x pasal2 je kne kua blanje untuk tunang plak. huuuu T_T

Tp xpe...I x merungut pon...sbb after the engagement, I rs happy sbb our relationship dah one step forward. x gitu? hehehe. Cume bad side nye..lari la bajet kami. huhu

Tym jumpe FMIL tu...she said die nk jumpe my parents dulu b4 hantar rombongan. Ye lah kan...mmg la kami ni couple dah lame...tp both parents x penah jumpe pon. Nak kate rumah jauh...rumah die 5mins je dr rumah I. hehe.

So we set a "parents meet up" two weeks after my meeting with her sbb the next week family die ade hal. So..the next two weeks laaa~~~. (Owh...and we couldnt make it on weekdays just bcoz my bf kerja kat tuuuut....So...he's only available during Friday & Saturday je)

The parents meet up took place at my home...I x masak k. My mom yg masak. My mom soh I kemas rumah yg mcm tongkang pecah sbb I ade due org hero-kat-rumah-tu-yg-asek-buat-sepah-je-keje. hehe

The meet up went great...eventho my dad asek kerah tenage I pegi amek itu & ini di dapur...I nak makan dengan hati yang tenang pon xbleh. Hee....Diorg ade lah diskas sket2 pasal majlis tu nnt...bp bnyk hantaran nak bagi...n so on.

So..the next week nye...on Tuesday ke Monday ntah...my mom called soh balik umah beli kaen nak buat baju tunang. I told my mom...I nak pakai baju raye yg lepas je. Since both of us dah terpakse bertunang..heee...malas la nak buat baju beriya2 macam org nikah kan. hehehe.

Tp my mom kate...my maklong soh buat baju "bagi cantik sikit"....aiyakk maklong...selame ni kakak xcantik ke? hua hua hua.So...kitorg pon beli la kaen...tu pon naseb baek xg carik kaen kat KL. Huu...malas la I nak merempuh org ramai2 n jem kat KL. huhu. I risau sbb ade ke tailor yg bleh siapkan baju tunang dlm 2weeks ni. I risau gile. Tp my mom cepat2 call our tailor (tailor ni jahitan die cantik2....one of Den Wahab nye tailor..murah pon murah. hehe) ...naseb baek die kate die boleh siapkan dalam seminggu. pheuwww!

So..ni la baju nye....designed by combined-idea of my Tante (call name for my mom's baby sister), me, and the tailor. Hehe...boleh la....cume if I bleh alter balik baju ni...I nak tuka kaen die buat kipas belakang. sbb..I tinggi n kurus...I suke design camtu..tp apsal ntah tym nk tempah baju tu....xmo buat kipas belakang. May be sbb I nye baju kebaye + baju kurung moden I sume buat kipas belakang kot. Haha...

I think..sampai sini je la dulu....nnt I cite lagi pasal preparation tunang...n the day of bertunang itself. pheww! abeh dahhh! okay. Do share with me some love kay? ^_*